Is Your Ex Boyfriend Over You? Don't Give Up Yet!

How do you know if your ex boyfriend still loves you? Are there ways to tell if he still has feelings, or are you just holding on to false hope?

Broken Up

So he dumped you... and he still hasn't called yet.

Your ex boyfriend hasn't emailed you, text-messaged you, or contacted you in days.

Is it totally over? Or is there a way you can still win him back?

When it comes to losing a relationship, there's always good news and bad news.

Let's start with the bad news first.

Your Ex Boyfriend Will Always Push You Away... Initially

Although all breakups are different, there are many things they also share in common. And when it comes to guys? It's really no different. That's why there are a number of irrefutable truths about your relationship you first need to face, before setting your feet on the correct path to getting your ex boyfriend back.

Right after breaking up with you, your boyfriend will always seek to distance himself from you. Very quickly he'll break contact, refuse your calls, and try to stay as far away from you as possible.

This scares most women to death, because they take this behavior as a sign of rejection. To you, it seems like your ex just doesn't care anymore.

Truthfully however, your ex is distancing himself for a number of reasons. First and foremost: he feels weirded out around you. Right now you're no longer his girlfriend, but he also knows you still love him. Just being around you might give you the 'wrong idea', and so your ex will try to avoid contact altogether rather than send any kind of mixed signals.

Also, keep in mind that your boyfriend just made a hard decision: to break off your relationship. When he did this, he made the decision alone... without you, or your input. Your ex did this for a reason, and that reason is because he knew you'd try and talk him out of the breakup. Rather than give you the chance to do this, he bolted as quickly and cleanly as he could.

So right now you're broken... alone... scared... you think this lack of contact on your ex's part translates to a complete lack of caring or love for you. It seems like your ex boyfriend is over you completely, and so any attempts at getting him back will end in dismal failure.

Alright - enough gloom. Let's move on to the good news:

Despite The Breakup, Your Boyfriend
Still Has Strong Feelings and Emotions For You

It's true: your ex still loves you, even after dumping you and running away. The emotional bonds you formed over the course of your relationship are just as important to him as they are to you.

The only difference? He chooses right now to ignore those bonds, and push aside those feelings. You on the other hand, are trying to embrace them.

Right after breaking up with you, your ex knows the best course of action is to shove you away. This is why you shouldn't give up just yet: because those feelings are still there. Your boyfriend still remembers the great times you shared, the things you did, and the love you had for each other. But in an effort to move forward without you, he's placed those memories on a shelf.

It's your job to pull those memories out and dust them off. You need to bring them out and show them to him, so that your ex sees what he's going to miss. The first rule of getting your boyfriend back is rather simple, and it's one most women miss: you need to make him miss you. Once you can do that, getting him to go out with you again is just a few steps away.

How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Want You Again

Making your ex want you back takes a systematic, step-by-step approach. It's not something you can do right away, and this is why it's always bad to contact your ex immediately after the break up. By distancing yourself from the situation, you're creating longing. You're taking yourself out of your exboyfriend's line of sight, and therefore away from his life. This is when he'll start to miss you again.

Understand something: those emotions and feelings aren't going to go away overnight. Therefore, you don't need to chase your ex right away. As much as it hurts right now... as much as it seems you need to take immediate action? By not chasing your ex boyfriend you actually are taking action.

By NOT running after him and NOT letting him know how needy and desperate you are, your ex boyfriend actually starts to realize something important: he stands to lose you. This is a tremendously critical part of winning your boyfriend back. By disappearing from his life for a while, you're creating a hole in his heart... right where you used to be. And when your ex doesn't know what you're doing? A sense of urgency is created, because he's not yet ready to let you go.

Even though he broke up with you, your boyfriend didn't want to lose you all at once. He'd much rather you sit around and pine for him, like a lovestruck puppy. This gives him the confidence to move forward and date other people, all the while knowing he can still get you back.

But once he thinks he can't get you back anymore? All bets are off. There are some very creative reversal methods you can use to turn the tide, shift his emotional attachments, and swing the balance of power back in your favor, when it comes to a boyfriend suddenly breaking up with you.

So is your ex boyfriend over you? Not even close. If you're willing to take a proactive approach to getting back together again, there are methods and techniques you can use to place yourself right back in your ex's head... and his heart.

Ex Boyfriend Guru

Need a male point of view? Want to know what your ex boyfriend is thinking, and what's going on in his mind?

This is exactly where the Ex Boyfriend Guru, Matt Huston, comes into play.

Written exclusively for women trying to get back with an ex boyfriend, Get Him Back Forever is exactly that: a complete, step-by-step blueprint to not only getting your boyfriend back, but also keeping him happy by fixing the issues that caused him to leave in the first place.

The written guidebook and audio files downloaded here go WAY beyond the standard breakup rules you may have already read. Author Matt Huston brings you deeper and deeper into the modern man's psyche, showing you exactly what's going on in your boyfriend's head before, during, and just after he breaks things off with you.

Is he cold? Feel him slipping away? The system shows you exactly why this happens, and what you can do to draw your ex closer rather than pushing him further and further away. You'll learn tips and tricks for making him jealous, regaining respect, and seizing back the control you may have lost the moment your boyfriend ended things.

Mistake-wise, you might already be doing things that prevent you from ever dating your ex again. Huston shows you exactly what these mistakes are, as well as how you can change your ex's outlook on you as a potential girlfriend again.

Get Him Back Forever is a very blunt, honest, no-bullshit approach toward getting an exboyfriend to WANT you back. Author Matt Huston doesn't sugarcoat things or give you false hope; you'll be told exactly what moves will work in your favor, and which moves are destined to send your ex screaming for the hills. You'll also learn proper timing, such as when to contact your ex boyfriend and precisely what to say to him once you do start talking again.

if nothing else, check out this FREE 3-minute opening moves audio sample. In it, you'll get a feel for how you should be handling your breakup, and what you can do to make your ex NEED to have you back in his life!

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