What If My Ex Boyfriend Is Already Dating?

Losing a relationship when you're still in love can make you feel hurt and rejected. As you struggle to get better, that pain hits all over again the moment you see your ex with another girl. What if my boyfriend is already dating by the time I try to get him back? Is there still a way to win his heart?

Exboyfriend Dating Someone

When the smoke clears and you've picked yourself up from the shock of the break up, many women start thinking the same exact thing:

How can I get my boyfriend back?

In some cases however, this is hindered by an additional problem:

Your ex already has a new girlfriend, or has started seeing someone else.

As if losing your boyfriend wasn't enough, now you have to endure the hurt and humiliation of watching him with his new girlfriend... or is there something you can do to bring him back?

Well I'm here to tell you things aren't half as bad as you might think they are.

The Rules and Regulations of the Rebound Relationship

Has your boyfriend moved on? Yes, in a sense. But in many ways, his heart also still lies with you. He has no memories with this person he just met... no concrete feelings of love or adoration. If your boyfriend began dating another girl shortly after your breakup, chances are he's jumping into a rebound relationship. What he feels right now is infatuation - not love - and there are ways you can use this to your advantage when it comes to winning him back.

Just because your ex boyfriend has a new girl on his arm doesn't mean he's forgotten all about you. On the contrary, the fact that he's moving on so quickly is actually good news when it comes to his emotional state. Had each of you spent a long time single and then your boyfriend met a new love interest, it would be a lot worse than if he leapt right into a new relationship.

This is because those feelings and emotions that your ex held close to his heart for you? They're all still there. He didn't have the time to deal with or process them, so in order to "move on" your ex did the next best thing: he buried them.

Digging Out Your Ex's Old Feelings For You

Want more good news? In most cases, your ex boyfriend probably didn't do a very good job. In the haste to start seeing this new girl, he shoved those feelings quickly to the side. The emotions he feels for you are still there - your ex is just choosing to ignore them. In time they'll go away... left alone, that is.

But if you're willing to put the time and effort necessary into drawing those feelings back out? You can quickly make your boyfriend realize just how much he still loves, misses, and wants you back.

A guy who begins dating a new girl will try not to think about the old one - initially, at least. This phase of his new relationship will be fairly indestructible, and you'll need to keep your cool during this time. As hard as it is to see your boyfriend holding another girl's hand, you have to clench your teeth and think long term. Picture your future together... when his new girlfriend or rebound fling will be nothing but a distant memory and the two of you will be building a long-term relationship again.

Choosing Your Moment - Striking When the Time is Right

Once your ex's new romance begins to wear on him (and in most rebound relationships, this happens very quickly), that's when his thoughts will turn back to you. He'll start remembering the places you went, the things you did, and the little details that made him love you so much. He'll also want to know where you are and what you're doing. Your ex's interest in you will suddenly be renewed, and you might even get a friendly phone call, email, or text-message from him. These things are all good indications that your ex still has feelings for you, and that he may be ready to act upon them again.

By why sit around waiting? There are some excellent techniques you can use for drawing out your ex's old feelings toward you.

The step-by-step methods to accomplish this are simple, subtle, yet effective: they put you right back into your ex boyfriend's mind without him really knowing that you're doing anything. This is extremely important, because if your exboyfriend thinks you're trying to threaten his new relationship, he's going to avoid you. But by applying just the right reinsertion techniques necessary to get his mind back on you again, your phone will immediately start to ring.

MOMU - Magic of Making Up

The Magic of Making Up is one of the most popular guides to getting back together after a breakup. Relationship master T.W. Jackson caters to those who feel lost, helpless, and completely alone in their efforts to win back an ex boyfriend or girlfriend.

The multi-step process of reversing an unwanted breakup has many stages, and Making Up goes over all of them. Step by step, Jackson gently guides you through the intricies of fixing ANY breakup, large of small.

From beginning to end, you'll find out exactly what to do in each and every situation. Learn how to handle the early stages of the breakup so that your ex still desires you, and which emotional connections you can play upon the make your boyfriend or girlfriend INSTANTLY miss and want you back again.

Learn how to contact your ex; when to make such contact, and what to say. "T-Dub" Jackson's instantly downloadable guidebook has already helped tens of thousands of couples reunite with one another after a breakup, even in cases where getting back together seemed hopeless.

  • Learn which emotional triggers work best for men, and which are more suited for women.
  • Ex unresponsive? Understand how to bring back your ex's interest in just a few simple moves.
  • Find out why your ex broke up with you, and how it's the absolute KEY to fixing things.
  • Feel like your ex no longer respects you? Learn why fixing this situation is a huge priority!
  • Undo early mistakes, even if you feel like you've blown any chance you had of getting your ex back.

The Magic of Making Up teaches these lessons and MANY more. Once you've read every single chapter, you can identify which approach works best for your own specific situation and start working on a plan to win back your boyfriend or girlfriend.

Be sure to watch the author's infamous FREE Opening Moves Video. If you're stuck on what to do next, this short three-minute video can be a lifesaver when it comes to starting on the road to reconciliation.

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