What If My Ex Boyfriend Is Already Dating?

Losing a relationship when you're still in love can make you feel hurt and rejected. As you struggle to get better, that pain hits all over again the moment you see your ex with another girl. What if my boyfriend is already dating by the time I try to get him back? Is there still a way to win his heart?

Exboyfriend Dating Someone

When the smoke clears and you've picked yourself up from the shock of the break up, many women start thinking the same exact thing:

How can I get my boyfriend back?

In some cases however, this is hindered by an additional problem:

Your ex already has a new girlfriend, or has started seeing someone else.

As if losing your boyfriend wasn't enough, now you have to endure the hurt and humiliation of watching him with his new girlfriend... or is there something you can do to bring him back?

Well I'm here to tell you things aren't half as bad as you might think they are.

The Rules and Regulations of the Rebound Relationship

Has your boyfriend moved on? Yes, in a sense. But in many ways, his heart also still lies with you. He has no memories with this person he just met... no concrete feelings of love or adoration. If your boyfriend began dating another girl shortly after your breakup, chances are he's jumping into a rebound relationship. What he feels right now is infatuation - not love - and there are ways you can use this to your advantage when it comes to winning him back.

Just because your ex boyfriend has a new girl on his arm doesn't mean he's forgotten all about you. On the contrary, the fact that he's moving on so quickly is actually good news when it comes to his emotional state. Had each of you spent a long time single and then your boyfriend met a new love interest, it would be a lot worse than if he leapt right into a new relationship.

This is because those feelings and emotions that your ex held close to his heart for you? They're all still there. He didn't have the time to deal with or process them, so in order to "move on" your ex did the next best thing: he buried them.

Digging Out Your Ex's Old Feelings For You

Want more good news? In most cases, your ex boyfriend probably didn't do a very good job. In the haste to start seeing this new girl, he shoved those feelings quickly to the side. The emotions he feels for you are still there - your ex is just choosing to ignore them. In time they'll go away... left alone, that is.

But if you're willing to put the time and effort necessary into drawing those feelings back out? You can quickly make your boyfriend realize just how much he still loves, misses, and wants you back.

A guy who begins dating a new girl will try not to think about the old one - initially, at least. This phase of his new relationship will be fairly indestructible, and you'll need to keep your cool during this time. As hard as it is to see your boyfriend holding another girl's hand, you have to clench your teeth and think long term. Picture your future together... when his new girlfriend or rebound fling will be nothing but a distant memory and the two of you will be building a long-term relationship again.

Choosing Your Moment - Striking When the Time is Right

Once your ex's new romance begins to wear on him (and in most rebound relationships, this happens very quickly), that's when his thoughts will turn back to you. He'll start remembering the places you went, the things you did, and the little details that made him love you so much. He'll also want to know where you are and what you're doing. Your ex's interest in you will suddenly be renewed, and you might even get a friendly phone call, email, or text-message from him. These things are all good indications that your ex still has feelings for you, and that he may be ready to act upon them again.

By why sit around waiting? There are some excellent techniques you can use for drawing out your ex's old feelings toward you.

The step-by-step methods to accomplish this are simple, subtle, yet effective: they put you right back into your ex boyfriend's mind without him really knowing that you're doing anything. This is extremely important, because if your exboyfriend thinks you're trying to threaten his new relationship, he's going to avoid you. But by applying just the right reinsertion techniques necessary to get his mind back on you again, your phone will immediately start to ring.

Ex Boyfriend Guru

Need a male point of view? Want to know what your ex boyfriend is thinking, and what's going on in his mind?

This is exactly where the Ex Boyfriend Guru, Matt Huston, comes into play.

Written exclusively for women trying to get back with an ex boyfriend, Get Him Back Forever is exactly that: a complete, step-by-step blueprint to not only getting your boyfriend back, but also keeping him happy by fixing the issues that caused him to leave in the first place.

The written guidebook and audio files downloaded here go WAY beyond the standard breakup rules you may have already read. Author Matt Huston brings you deeper and deeper into the modern man's psyche, showing you exactly what's going on in your boyfriend's head before, during, and just after he breaks things off with you.

Is he cold? Feel him slipping away? The system shows you exactly why this happens, and what you can do to draw your ex closer rather than pushing him further and further away. You'll learn tips and tricks for making him jealous, regaining respect, and seizing back the control you may have lost the moment your boyfriend ended things.

Mistake-wise, you might already be doing things that prevent you from ever dating your ex again. Huston shows you exactly what these mistakes are, as well as how you can change your ex's outlook on you as a potential girlfriend again.

Get Him Back Forever is a very blunt, honest, no-bullshit approach toward getting an exboyfriend to WANT you back. Author Matt Huston doesn't sugarcoat things or give you false hope; you'll be told exactly what moves will work in your favor, and which moves are destined to send your ex screaming for the hills. You'll also learn proper timing, such as when to contact your ex boyfriend and precisely what to say to him once you do start talking again.

if nothing else, check out this FREE 3-minute opening moves audio sample. In it, you'll get a feel for how you should be handling your breakup, and what you can do to make your ex NEED to have you back in his life!

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